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        ENGAGEMENT, MATRIMONY AND CHILDREN


             In April 1858, on the Saint-Léonard Bridge Zélie crossed paths
        with a handsome young man who struck her with his good looks,
        his bearing and his physiognomy. It was Louis Martin, who had a
        watchmaker’s workshop. It was “love at first sight “ and after only 3
        months of engagement, they decided to get married.
             They had nine children, four of whom died at an early age; five
        girls remained and, as Louis would say, the Lord gave them the gift of
        naming them as His brides. Of the five nuns, Thérèse became a saint
        (Saint Thérèse of Lisieux) and Léonie, who had worried her parents
        so much because of her difficult  character  and some  behavioral
        problems, is today a “Servant of God”.


        WORK
             There were joys and worries as well as difficulties in reconciling
        the work of both parents with the education of their children and the
        many tasks that a large family entails.
             The success of Zélie’s workshop  led Louis to close his               ENGAGEMENT, MATRIMONY AND CHILDREN
        watchmaker’s store to help his wife.


        GRIEF, ILLNESS, AND WIDOWHOOD

             There were moments of great hardship too: the loss of four of
        their children and Zélie’s illness, which led to her premature death
        at the age of 46. Louis remained a widower with four daughters who
        were still small (the youngest, Therese, was only five years old) and,
        in order to respect Zélie’s wishes, he decided to move to Lisieux.
        Leaving  Alençon for Lisieux meant  giving  up the  lace  workshop,
        leaving friendships and an environment to which he was attached,
        but the girls would have the companionship of their cousins and the
        closeness of their aunt and uncle Guérin, to whom Zélie had silently
        entrusted them shortly before her death. 2





         2   Cf. S.G. Piat, Storia di una famiglia, Ed OCD, VII edizione I ristampa, Roma 2018, pp. 253-273.
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